“The wise say that for men there are 7 gates through which admission may be gained into Heaven.
There are:-
1. asceticism (tapas),
2. benevolence (dāna – invariably, this means Charity),
3. tranquillity of mind (śama),
4. self-command (dama – indeed, complete self-control),
5. modesty (hrī),
6. simplicity (ārjava – straightforwardness, honesty, rectitude, etc.), and
7. kindness to all creatures (sarva-bhūta-
{tapaś ca dānaṃ ca śamo damaś ca; hrīr ārjavaṃ sarvabhūtānukampā
svargasya lokasya vadanti santo; dvārāṇi saptaiva mahānti puṃsām}
I must add that tapas doesn’t necessarily mean asceticism.
It can have varied meanings.
Thus, at another location, the Mahābhārata itself says {12.79.18 – I follow the Hindi translation of Pandit Shastri Pandey}:
ahiṃsā satyavacanam ānṛśaṃsyaṃ
etat tapo vidur dhīrā na śarīrasya śoṣaṇam
“
· ahiṃsā: to never injure any living being,
· satya-vacana: truthfu
· ānṛśaṃsya: to abandon all cruelty,
· dama: to subdue & control the mind & the senses,
· ghṛṇā: to feel compassion for everyone,
– these are regarded as penances (tapas) by the wise (dhīra) and not the tormenting the body (“śarīra śoṣaṇam”).”
This is nothing short of “revolutionary” – it changes everything.
Tapas here is not “penance”, not some sort of rigorous self-mortification, not torturing the body, not daunting self-denial, not monkish discipline involving tormenting hunger & pain, not ascesis meant for recluses who wither their bodies deep inside forests – it has been given a lofty, universal psychological & moral sense, inseparable from kindness, sweetness of disposition, harmlessness, & mercy.
I have given so many quotes by now: and any conscientious reader must ask himself, or herself, if people who constantly reiterated & passionately proclaimed such values, were capable of acts like “Satī”?!
Yes, the word ghṛṇā in Sanskrit does mean compassion, tenderness, “a warm feeling towards others”.
I shall come to the complex subject of tapas sometime else.